RIP Gav

R.I.P. Gav - 21/9/2011 - Our beloved Gavin Larkin passed away this afternoon at 3.28pm. He was surrounded by his family and the love that he has created. He will never be forgotten for who he was, how he lived and what he has left behind. I know I speak on behalf of all that knew him when I say Gav, thank you for being you. The world is a better place for having had you in it.
The Larkin family would like to thank everybody who has contributed to this blog. The messages have been a constant source of support and wonderful memories that the family will cherish forever. They have been overwhelmed by all the good wishes, lovely words, food & flowers. The community around Gavin, Maryanne, Gus, Josie and Van has been wonderful and made an enormous difference. Thank you to all.

May we suggest, if you would like to offer further support, in lieu of flowers, please make a donation to one of the following nominated causes: RUOK? Day Donations or Cure For Life




Friday, 14 October 2011

Chris and Sarah Basten

You have done many amazing, cool and (at times) tough things. You have done these activities with many people around the world who clearly love and respect you. We treasure the things done together: we have partied, danced, dressed up (there was a merkin once, I recall), dined, skied, sampled wines, done The Hunter, done the beach, played touch footy with the kids, hit golf balls, and we’ve talked frankly about life and about death. Your radical acceptance of life and death is more than heartening, Gav. I’ve already told many people how impressive and inspiring your approach is. You know that you have put enough fuel in the tanks of your three kids for the rest of their lives – with your enthusiasm and lust for life and Love – and Maz can amply be there for tunes ups. I also want you to know that we (and your family and other friends) will be there for them for as long as they need.
I know you told me a couple of times how you got RUOK Day up and running but I still don’t get it. Within a year, you had media partners, major sponsors and health agencies and NGO partners. What I don’t get, I think, is that I don’t know anyone else who could have done that. When people admire you personally and respect your work and see your vision, they will do things for you and with. And, man, you deliver all those things. You have kicked some big goals and hit some long shots. I guess some bunkers are too steep to hit out of.
We treasure our times together and look forward to more good stuff with Maz and the kids.

Wednesday, 12 October 2011

Nikki & Steve Freeman

To the Larkin family,

We only watched our recorded Australian story episode a couple of nights ago and were expecting a moving story about RUOK? day and depression. To say we were moved beyond words is a massive understatement. Our thoughts are with you all during this time and the coming months as you begin the long journey of healing and rebuilding your life. Gav was an inspiration and will always be with you in your hearts.....how lucky I feel to have been touched by his presence and story. Thank you Gavin. Nik & steve Freeman x

Amy Godfrey

Dear Maz, Gus, Josie, Van, Aya, Del and Family,
I had the rare privilege of working alongside Gavin as his EA for 3 years prior to him falling ill. In that time I got to know him and each of you very well. Gav's ability to love unconditionally, listen wholeheartedly and command trust and respect set him apart from so many others. Gav was a giant amongst men. I'm eternally grateful I had the opportunity to know Gav and to be involved in RUOK? Day and the continuance of his legacy.
Maz, I should have told you more often how amazing you are – you are gorgeous, loving, caring, determined and strong. My thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow.
Much love to you all
Amy

Monday, 3 October 2011

Nadine Hooper

Hi Maryanne,
Our thoughts are with you.
Nadine and Bryce (New Zealand - ex Laguna Beach)

Theresa

To Gavin's family and friends
I am so sorry for your loss.
I never knew Gavin, but I wish I had...
It sounds like he was an incredible person and all who knew him were so lucky
God Bless you and R.I.P lovely man
Love Theresa x

Anon

I heard about the passing of the RuOK? Founder at a work meeting where a colleague’s child was attending the funeral. I then read the transcripts and more about the Larkin founder. This is so inspiring and my thoughts are with the Larkin family today.


Iain Good

In the words of Gavin’s favourite band, today was “ A Beautiful Day”.
To see, hear and feel the depth of positive emotion that surrounded Gavin today made one feel privileged to be included in Gavin’s life.
As I know many of you have done today, Gavin has challenged us to squeeze every ounce from life.
He certainly did in his 43.
Thanks Gavin.
Iain
xx

Louise Woodbury

Maryanne, Gus, Josie, Van

Thank you. Today has been a remarkable day. You really are an extraordinary family. Your courage, your strength, and your love for Gav is something that I will cherish forever. I’m so grateful that Gav got to know just how much he was loved by all of you and that today, you all got to see, hear, and feel how much he loved all of you.

A very special day – and I guess Gav is loving the fact that he gets to travel around with all of in our cars while we listen to his Playlist. Have felt like he’s sitting in the passenger seat singing, laughing, and saying hey life is to be enjoyed – let’s step it up.

Much love to all of you

Art Antonious

To Gavin’s Family, friends and everyone involved with RUOK?,
I would like to thank you and Gavin. I never met him, however I saw Australian Story and his legacy with RUOK? Makes me feel like I knew Gavin personally as a close friend and mate.
I continue to apply his message daily where possible in my community with outstanding results and heart moving experiences. It would make Gavin, family and everyone involved with RUOK?very proud indeed.
Thank you from bottom of my heart
Art Antonious

Victoria Leontios

Gavin -
Thank you for the legacy you have left and the difference you have made, and, continue to make to the planet. You are one extraordinary human being. May you be at peace in knowing this.
Love to your family.
Victoria