Andrew Hankin

Dear Gav,

Nearly 10 years ago when my old man passed away you sent me an email. An email that I’ve kept and read from time to time.

Knowing what it was like to lose a father you told me that ‘although you never really get over it, you do get used to it’

It’s advice that I’ve had to pass on to friends in the 10 years since. Advice that isn’t nice to give but everyone who hears those words instantly understands their meaning. It’s something that gives people strength.

I often think of you and the email you had sent me during a really hard time. And I guess I always will.

Hank

Below is the actual email.

From: "Larkin, Gavin"

Date: Fri, 1 Mar 2002 12:06:30 +1100

To: Andrew Hankin

Subject: Dads

Hank,

Although I didn't know your dad (which from all accounts was my loss) I do know what it is like to lose a dad .

My old man checked out 7 years ago and although you never really get over it ,you do get used to it .

You have my heartfelt sympathy and an open invitation to talk anytime you feel the need .

Stay strong and good luck.

Regards,

Gav