Per Smith

Gav, as others have said words just don't seem adequate but I would like to share with you a couple of things that bring a smile to my face.

Footy tucker - every recess and lunchtime for years. Of course the masterful Dodd/Larkin -1/2 5/8 combination - was truly a thing to behold. Your Campo goose-step. You were merciless in ribbing me about my unique kicking style - 'booot' (I still maintain that it worked for Mal Meninga, why not me?)

The great delight you took delivering me some good news - the first time a girl 'liked' me at school. The girls and I were then your guests at the Larkin Christmas party at Baz's. Later that night we all went for a swim at the other end of Balmoral we just floating and talking.

You, Mike, Benny and I out on the prowl at Billy the Pigs and The Golden Sheaf. So many times I remember laughing so hard that I couldn't see, and I wasn't quite sure that I would ever stop.

I remember meeting Maz for the first time, we were having a swim at Bronte. I was thinking "she is fantastic", and then seeing in your eyes that she was 'the one'.

One particular summer BBQ with you, Maz, Gus and Josie (Van hadn't made his appearance yet) on the verandah at Clovelly. Good times, so relaxed. The Larkins have a gift making people feel completely at home - truly welcome.

You also need to know Gav, I admire you greatly.

You have treated life with great respect, well most of the time, and you certainly have not taken it for granted. You have dared to dream. More than that, you have made things happen for yourself and those around you. This blog is testament to positivity that comes from being around you. RU OK? is an initiative you should feel immensely proud of. It shows insight, personal courage and leadership to take on what is a tough, insoluble community issue. It will endure.

I love the fact you are prepared to listen to anyone but you don't suffer fools. Life is too precious to waste it on dickheads.

You shown a great appreciation for many things: you really listen to music; you celebrate the joy of eating (and drinking) and you celebrate and share the act (only last Saturday, smashing down a profiterole with toffee - "This is fantastic, where did it come from?").

Most recently you have shown the most incredible courage. Navigating your own illness and also the heavy heart of nursing a sick child. Unbelievable.

Over the years you have shown great trust, generosity and loyalty in our friendship. You have shown me your frailty, and in turn supported me when I was low. I have never been hungry or thirsty in your presence. You have persevered when I have distanced myself. Gav, I am forever thankful for the shared mischief, laughs (so many laughs), advice, dancing, footy and companionship. My life is richer for knowing you.

I love you Gav.